I think what the guys are saying is that if you take the time to say “I don’t care”, you obviously do. Now you managed to get her upset…hate to say it but this is good, women react more to emotional stimulus than logic. It’s like when the nice guy lists off a thousand and one reasons the girl should leave a bad boy and she knows that he’s right and agree’s, but when the bad boy comes around he hits her emotional hot buttons and logic leaves the equation. So you got her to react to you emotionally, that’s good. But you reacted somewhat emotionally too…not so good. Yeah you got stuff off your chest but that act indicates that you felt the need to, it communicated that you were bothered and affected by her.
Being alpha means being calm, cool, collected and unaffected. What she does and with whom should be beneath your notice. Respond only to what is brought up, spilling your guts tells her and everyone else that she got to you and you’ve had this shit stewing for a while. Honestly when I hear somebody (male or female) bring up a bunch of shit like that I wonder to myself “did they rehearse this shit in a mirror cause it sounds like this was a long time coming”
NEVER question yourself. Just be prepared in whatever direction YOU decide to take that there is a lesson to be learned from EVERYTHING, all the time, and this will better prepare YOU when this time comes again. I would personally go for her. YOU like her and it will be a good learning experience. IMO hiding or ignoring her or blowing her off isn’t what a caveman would do. He would club her over the head, take her back to his cave, and fuck the shit out of her…LMAO… It sorta sounds like you’ve made your mind up already. If you can’t have her(meaning shes attached) that makes you want her more which builds attraction for yourself so you could find yourself wanting this girl more especially if you see her a lot. The best thing is to do what YOU want and let the cards fall where they may. Just learn from the experience!
I guess you ended up doing SOMETHING about the situation which is a step in the right direction…GOOD LUCK, but try and avoid calling her out in front of others.
alright this turned from an advice thread to a im going to do whatever i want thread and share my drama because im an attentionwhore thread. who cares.
LMAO…So tell us what you really think
…DON’T hold back ![]()
If you don’t agree with what he says, then just don’t read the thread. If you have nothing nice to say, either keep it to yourself or voice it tactfully.
And if you can’t control your own beta impulses, put some A314 on and ponder on why its not nice to rank on someone who’s just beggining to realize how social interactions work.
Long story short, stop being a dick.
haha I dont think you understand what Im getting at, this is a pheromone advice forum. Thisthread has nothing to do with mones just a teenager venting his sexual frustrations. thats cool but he should definitely just hit up a relationship forum. Either that or I believe they should make a subforum for teenage drama here.
But you are right if i find it annoying I should just stop reading the thread.
The funny thing about reading other peoples written thoughts/comments … IS that they are takin’ how THE READER perceive YOU to be thinkin’. IMO there prolly should be a separate PUA portion to this site because this turned from somewhat phero based to nothing really phero based. Again IMO ![]()
Most of the advice here goes hand in hand with pheromone usage, their designed to complement you. Its just going to be incidental that there are going to be times when people go off on a tangent. Developing and viewing things from others’ perspective can help enhance the effectiveness of the products. If not for the personal custom advice it would just be a bunch of faqs for people to read. I believe that it takes the human out of the equation. We were all there at one point, and that is the hardest part to understand because its been that long.
Definitely did not sound rehearsed. I was being 100% real. And I made sure she knew, I didn’t give a shit that she stayed in another guy’s room, it was the fact that she lied. I asked her “have I lied to you yet?” She shook her head. And then I asked the frat brother in front of her “You know me better than anyone else here. Am I an honest guy, have I ever made you believe that I’m dishonest?” He said I was a very honest guy.
Then I asked her “have you lied to me?” And she said no, and I corrected her, and told her how I hate dishonest people. She said, “so you hate me?” And then I said I’m also a forgiving person. She apologized, and I said if it happens again, we’ll have a problem.
BTW, LOVE all the feedback. Did not expect this much haha. Feel free to say anything you guys want, I’m a big guy, I can take it.
And I did include the mones I was wearing ![]()
I plan on purchasing Ammo, not so much for her but for mixers w/ sororities.
Some of you think I did well, some think I shouldn’t have done it. What’s done is done, no turning back. I hit her emotional buttons, we’ll see how she reacts.
She’s a freshmen, anyways. Bigger fish to fry here.
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Its all about your inner game.
I’m not saying you are, but if you feel one way and say another, your body will betray you. Just a little tidbit I learned.
Don’t forget that a big part of this forums has been the help that goes along with using the mones that alot of members sometimes need (including myself). Don’t be hating on someone cause they feel the need to vent or are confused about something. We all came to mones for the same reason, to improve ourselves, whether you will admit it or not. Part of this forum has always been like this, because it is actually needed knowledge in order to be successful with mones. Don’t hate on the kid cause he needed to vent or because he needed help.
With that said, it might be nice to have a new part of the forum that covers love/sex/relationship type questions.
Diplomacy. My friend.
Yeah she’s really pissed haha.
It’s also a community here. Seek advice on mones and the social aspects that come with them. There are also a fair few folk here who are still new to learning how to become better at social interactions. Which is what we’re all here for in the end: How to up our game or increase our ability to socialize, whatever the setting. So yea, this stuff goes hand in hand.
This is just my thoughts but I probably would have spun that a bit differently because it still comes off a bit beta to me. I would have said something more along the lines of “Let’s just say that while I can be forgiving, you have to earn that forgiveness.” That’s actually my view on a lot of things in life. If you wrong me, I’ll forgive you, in time, provided you make a serious effort at it. A half assed attempt will earn you a one way ticket out of my life in a heartbeat. I don’t dick around with people who want to jerk me around. Otherwise I think you’re doing quite well so far. Pardon the pun but fuck her, move on. There are other fish out there. ![]()
Just do what ever you think is right and what feels right. If they arnt for you fuck em who needs em?
Sounds like a few members need to moderated…![]()
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