Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll

[tisha23]

@WalrusGumBoot

This was a shock poll to me!

“The way he looks at me” is the leader.

You know there are ZERO online courses for men on how to pick up women by looking at them a certain way.

There are only a few women that expounded on this look, but inquiring men’s minds want/need to know,

What defines a look that melts you versus the ones that creep you out?

I will go one step further.

Is it the fact that he is looking at you in a certain way despite of his other characteristics, or does his characteristics (attractiveness, height, build, hair style, smell) accentuate the effects of that look?

*** I think theglitterelf posted just seconds before I did. She explains it a little bit (she is into him as well). Looking forward to other responses.

I heard kind of a pouty Colin Farrel/David Duchovny look is considered sexy these days, but those guys aren’t ugly.

I descibed it in post 12 of this thread …

EPIC WTF - The object of my affection tells other women that I'm GAY

Wow. It’s taken me two years to figure out wtf has been going on with this woman and I’m still a little bewildered. She sometimes “swoons” when she sees me, I’ve overheard her discussing my looks with a physician (“He’s handsome”), she is constantly asking other people their opinion of me. All along I’ve thought that she was obviously attracted but confounded about why she is constantly asking people what they thought of me. A few months ago I had a strong suspicion that she had purposefully int…

Tish