Hey Rick, welcome to the forum.
You have my sympathies. I agree with all of diamond’s suggestions. I’d like to add Instant Honesty to your list, it will encourage deeper discussions than Instant Openness, which women need to bond.
Bosshank’s links are good ,as diamond says. Here’s the one diamond refers to: Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home Look for the Boss’s posts in the Men’s section (actually, he’s everywhere!)
Good luck with you here…