Take a look at the thread Instant Gentleman + Instant Jerk = ??? .
You could try it as listed. The IJ has copulins in it that will inspire a bit of insecurity or possibly jealousy. It smells like you have been with a woman. That could translate into concern for losing you or it could make her mad.
If you want to go without the cops then substitute 2 sprays tuth for 1 spray IJ.
If you do go this route you should again pick up the dominant role. It is quite possibly what she is looking for and missing.