Why thank you. I have missed being here. Hopefully things will work out such that I can spend some more money on replenishing my phero chemistry set. 
I think I am going to start being more careful now about when I touch my hair, face or body in public… 
I have made the mistake of sending the wrong signal before. I’m ALWAYS playing with my hair, can’t change that too easily.
I think if I am interested in a guy, I will look at him more than once, depending on how bold I am feeling, I will make eye contact and smile, then look away. I will go near him and if I am lucky I will have a really good wing person with me (hard to find one that doesn’t embarass you) to help get the conversation going. If I go out to eat with a guy and I am interested in him, I will show cleavage somehow and try to touch him (maybe his hands). I also try to be a really good listener and bring up topics that he is passionate about. Sometimes I will plan three items to talk to him about before I go out with him (helps when conversation gets quiet and keeps things flowing). I think finding similarities is also key.
If it hasn’t been mentioned before - look for clusters of these ‘attraction indicators’. Ian Fleming put it best in one of the Bond novels: “Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. Three times is enemy action.”
I forgot to mention, concerning hair touching, that increased age has a tendency to reduce hair touching proportionately. Then there are those women who play with their hair as an unconscious nervous habit.
I wish more women were as good at making their interest known as you seem to be. lol
haha nice!!
thanks… I’ll try to be more aware of these indications… this is really interesting…
Gem has posted one on his site. Here is a quote from his post.
"Goes like this, When you compliment her on something, if she likes you, she will qualify herself more on that thing.
For instance, you say to her “Wow actually you are really funny” The biggest IOI she can give you at that point (short of floping your cock out) is to tell a joke."
When it comes to all things PUA, Consult to me if you’d like. IOI’s are second nature to me, even though I don’t do everything they do by the book just cause I hate casual sex or one night stands. Cant take it :]
I think the embarrassed smile indication can only be applied to shier women. The confident one will probably show a big smile with prolonged eye contact.
To the guy taking acting lessons so he can be what he thinks a girl would want him to be:
Be careful. You can lose yourself that way. We all do that to some degree, at least at first, just as part of social interactions. Most of us have lied or put on a posture to get into a woman’s pants- I’d do it tonight if I thought that what it took.
What I’ve found is that being the best man you can be is the best course. I’m no saint, by any measure, but I’ve worked hard at being a better man. It has paid off manyfold. It is easier to remember, for one thing! More importantly, it is what women are REALLY looking for.
As to women’s signals, they are good to look for so you can cut your losses and stop pestering the girl. If she’s sending strong come-on signals, then backing off a bit now and then can make her escalate and try harder. It’s a dance, two steps forward, one step back.
I can honestly say, that I’ve never noticed any of these signs, with or without mones.
I think another thing to add to this is that some women tend to get a little, or even really hyper around men they like. Today for example, I was using A314 and this girl was bursting out laughing(very loudly) at anything I had to say. She would say things that made no sense, and look at me almost all the time.
Hey! I work in NYC as a dating coach and I gotta say that the list you got there is spot on! Its all about positive body language. But guys whatever you do don’t start sending the same positive language back at her when you see this; its a game, let her earn that positive body language from you. Also - if she tries to bring you down by making fun of you or showing disinterest, don’t get discouraged! Women love to test you to see if you can handle the heat…you gotta be cool like this guy —> 
. And remember: there is no bigger turn off than seeming desperate or looking like you want it to much.
being: will get you the :o (girl) and will make you 
Agreed!! … From a gal’s perspective.
Just want to add, while some ladies do tend to get a little hyper around men they like, like blushing, giggle excessively, touch their hair, laugh at all the guy’s jokes (even if none of it is funny 
), there are some who will react differently. Like myself for example, I tend to be more quiet then my usual self, blushing maybe, not look you in the eye possibly (it depends on how well I know you), I have even completely ignored the guy I like. Lol. My point is, just because we are not hyper 
, it doesn’t mean that we are not interested. 
found these in a PUA forum. I personally think looking for IOI will just distract you from the actual conversation, so be aware, but don’t consciously keep looking for these signals.
- A girl gives a wide smile at you; giving you, “I missed you” look.
- A girl rubs the back of her neck while talking with you.
- A girl laughs at almost any rubbish thing you said to her.
- A girl shows her palms to you.
- A girl touches you or playful hits you.
- A girl tells you she misses you.
- A girl wishes you were over to spend some time.
8- A girl extends to your questions giving you more in detail response. - A girl lets you put her hand on ur leg (compliance test). This is usually IOSI.
- A girl leans into the conversation getting into your personal space.
- A girl wants to be around you and either finds ways to be around you.
- A girl will usually brush against you when not necessary.
- A girl sits close to you
- A woman puts her knees next to your or brushing against your leg.
- A woman touches your leg and holds it there for a second.
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When you guys hug she holds you for about 3 seconds or more.
19) She’ll usually ask her friends about you or something to get to know you (if she’s shy).
20) If a girl buys you a drink or something.
21) If you hold her hand and sqeeze it and she squeezes back.
22) If she gives you the DBL (Doggy Bowl Look).
23) If she gives you a pet name.
24) If she doesn’t mention her boyfriend even though she might have one.
25) If she doesn’t show her interest in her male friend or BF and more showing you interest.
26) If she nods her head while smiling when you talk to her. This is showing she is listening carefully of what you’re saying and validating what you’re saying.
27) If she jokes around with you, making good fun of you.
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If she flirts with you or teases you.
29) If she finds way to meet up with you sometime or mentions about meeting next time.
30) If she compliments on your look or appearance. “I like…” This is also a IOI.
31) If a girl asks if you have a GF.
32) If a girl mentions your girlfriend but really you don’t have a GF.
33) If a girl twirls her hair or plays with it while staring at you.
34) IF a girl adjusts her shirt or whatever to make her more attractive.
35) If a woman tosses her hair back exposing her neck.
36) If a woman moves her hair out of her way also exposing her her face.
37) If a woman gets into your personal space alot.
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If a woman while looking at you either itches her wrist, shoulder, or cheek.
39) If a woman DHV for you to be attracted to you, this also means she’s into you and trying to sell.
40) If a woman tells you personal in depth topics about her life and is usally more opened to you than others.
41) If she calls you hun, dear, sweetie, or whatever in that nature and only calls you that.
42) If she has a sexy tone in her voice.
43) If she looks u up and down or checks you out!
44) If a woman carries on the conversation just talk about anything.
45) If a woman seems excited or happy that your talking to her or being around her.
46) If a woman gets jealous when you’re around other women.
47) If a woman does a complainance test.
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If a woman asks personal sometimes sexual questions just to get to know you more.
49) If a woman sticks out her tounge showing her tounge ring without you asking, or shows you a tatoo on her lower back, or breast, or legs, or tells you where it is that’s sexual.
50) IF a woman shares past experiences more than she would with others.
Here are some IOSI’s:
- A woman licks her lips.
- A woman puts her finger to her lips.
- A woman rimming the whine glass with her middle finger. Meaning she wants to be fingered or fucked.
- If a woman plays with the slim part of the wine glass to show you she’s thinking about sex.
- A woman rubs her foot against your leg.
- A woman placing her hand on your leg or somewhere to get you horny.
- A woman asking you sexual quesitions like, “What is the freakest thing you’ve ever done to a girl?”
- If a woman adjusts her necklace to draw attention to her tits.
- If a woman mentions sex to you.
- If a woman finds way to get back to your place.
- If a woman rubs her thighs in a way that is sexual.
- If a woman is hugging you and rubbing your back sexually.
- When a woman arches her back to show her tits.
- If a woman spread her legs out in front of you.
- A woman that will expose her thighs by pulling up her skirt.
- A woman that is sitting down reveals what she’s wearing or maybe nothing at all.
- IF a woman bends down and exposes her cleavage, while looking up at you to see your response.
18- If a woman gives you a sexy look or something that will get you horny. - If a woman sucks on a straw even though her glass is empty. Signaling she wants to suck on u.
If you’re getting some indicators of sexual interest, you’re in. Just don’t say any stupid shit and you will get laid.
Actually, as a rule, don’t say stupid shit at all, ever.
see I don’t agree with all that …basically what your saying is IF the girl moves shes interested in you and if thats cause why are they so many single guys/girls out there.
ill makes it simply if the girls keeps a nice eye contact and when you say hi to her and she replays back or smiles means she doesn’t mind you being around and if she complies with your touch and maybe play with her hair a tad shes interested.
A lot of them make sense, but some of them I have to say are reading in way too much. Show’s you her palms? I’m not sure about this one. Also, I feel like a few of them could just mean she cares about you in a friendly manner, such as telling you that she misses you. I think it depends on how well you know the girl.
Most of them however are good IOI’s and although they might not mean she’s ready to jump your bones lol or even kiss you, they are signs of steps in the right direction. I usually use the rule of thumb and count three of the more obvious ones (in a period of at least 20 minutes, not in a row), then I do a compliance test and if it seems like it’s going well I’ll go in for a kiss. I just like to make sure that she’s ready to be kissed, but then again never take too long or the chance will fade away.
all I was saying is thats a little too much…because if I go base on everything like that hell I think 98% us population is attracted to me haha.
What is a doggy bowl look?
it’s the look you’d give if the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen was talking to you.