How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"

[Mikey07]

when i was in 9th grade this cute girl pulled down her sweat pants. i saw 2 inches of her ass. i wasn’t sure if it was to me though.it was in art class.

[mikeb4]

I’m so late to the party.. but I feel like I’m in one of these situations right now however it’s so short so nothing really happens…

long story short I take the train from work every day and after I change trains the first stop is where this girl gets on.. she knows I always stand near the doors and she always sits in the same seat so she has a plain view of me.. so after that stop I only have 3 more stops left for mine, sometimes I will mess around with my phone and notice she will stare at me and other times I will look over her way only to have her glance up and she notices Im looking and she looks back down.

I’ve thought about going into NYC just so see what she would do when it was time to exit the train..

I will admit I’ve not given any signs or anything since past relationships have not gone so well.. but I plan on giving her a smile to see what comes of it.

On a funny note for awhile (4weeks) she was not on the train at all and to my shock she got on and I was not expecting it so I finally decided to seat in a seat and sure enough she still glanced over and when I got up to exit the train.

I wonder if Pheromones would hurt or help here.. I’m a little scared since I can’t tell her age she seems to be around my age or a year or two older.

[Phoenix]

Best thing to do is to say hi I think.. it works so well

Anyway courage is important too.. Sometimes you will get nowhere and sometimes you will find the best friend of your life.. I think it’s good (worth it!) to take the step of trying (to find out), when you find the right person it’s fantastic I can tell you.

Best indicator of interest for me was on our dates when she can’t stop kissing me, due to pheromones perhaps!..

[mikeb4]

sure I can say hi with short ride for me makes it harder but I can let her know I noticed. the fact is I can move around and her eyes follow me I guess that’s good

[mikeb4]

@lukester19

A common one i noticed is when a girl looks at you and then glances away repeating this step quite a bit. This is when you have not met a girl but is a trend i see that they are interested. Lol i guess it works both ways because when you look back then she thinks the same.

I get this a lot on the train most middle aged women who would not be my first pick.. on another train its different since she is more my age does it really matter who looks away first? it can’t hurt to nod while she looks or smiles I’m looking forward to trying instant gentleman and taking the train the whole way so she would have to stand near me when we exit

[Koomhamada]

I have a story about preparation H. I was talking to my Doctor and told him my girlfriend likes anal sex and asked him if it is okay. His answer was if both of you enjoy it is good. He recommended using lots of lubrication because the Anus does not lubricate itself like the Vagina and he also told me to let her insert a preparation H after sex. When I looked at him surprised he said yes Preparation H relaxes the tissue and prevents inflammation.

My question is the smile. I always smile to people, Usually men say Hi and women smile back. How can interpret if her smile is just returning my smile or she is interested.

[Arctortroy]

@Koomhamada

I have a story about preparation H. I was talking to my Doctor and told him my girlfriend likes anal sex and asked him if it is okay. His answer was if both of you enjoy it is good. He recommended using lots of lubrication because the Anus does not lubricate itself like the Vagina and he also told me to let her insert a preparation H after sex. When I looked at him surprised he said yes Preparation H relaxes the tissue and prevents inflammation.

My question is the smile. I always smile to people, Usually men say Hi and women smile back. How can interpret if her smile is just returning my smile or she is interested.

Go with your gut instinct.

[xfyr]

Jasmin that was massive cool. Kudos to you! It kills me I never picked up on all those little indicators. I knew about the hair thing and the stolen glances but never the eye dilation and the other things. I thought showing flesh was just being comfortable which meant she thought I was just a “nice guy”. I really hated that. Now armed with info from the other side I will boldly go and happily skirmish with the fairer sex.

[SteveO]

This was posted down in the lounge: https://pheromonetalk.com/t/body-language-reading-a-woman-aol-story-link/28385

[otter]

@Jasmin

Multiple looks. Women have much better If you catch us looking at you more than once, it’s probably becuse we’re attracted and we can’t help it.

You catching us looking at all. Women look at you fast. If you catch us looking at you, this may be because we’re attracted. Not always (I get horrified when I see someone catching me looking when I’m not actually interested), but often. You guys have muscle, but we have social muscles. WHen you catch us being less than discreet, we often mean it and/or can’t help it. (or we’re just plastered drunk!)

Hair play. Women will play with her hair while near you or talking to you. Women play with their hair all the time, so this is usually when they are either engaged talking to you or otherwise AWARE of you.

Hovering, mild stalking Many of us walk past you more than once to get your attention. Of course, sometimes we’re just looking for something other than you (say, in a grocery store), so occasionally this means nothing on it’s own.

Blushing. We can’t help but turn a little red in the prescence of men we like. Women notice this, but men can learn to. Try to notice things like this for a eye.

Eye dilation .Dilation means getting bigger. If, when we see you, our iris get wide… or even the whole eye area… you can be sure we want you to fall into us. We’re making room for you.

She keeps looking at you. She can not take her eyes of you.

Showing flesh. Lifting up our dress to show you or legs or down to show you our butts. Yoinking on our collars, open our blouses a little. We often do this stuff even more covertly than we cover skin, so you really have to develop the skill to see this. Also, be aware that sometimes what looks like covering skin is actually showing OTHER skin. Keep that in mind. Look for the actual motive. When we cover our skin, we strive to cover all our skin instead covering up some by revealing other skin.

Facing chest or face toward you. When we want you to know we’re attracted, we’ll aim our chest toward you. When we’re attracted, but we don’t necessarily want you to know, we might be looking away, but our feet or even our bodies (torsos) will be aimed at you.

Smiling that makes us look bad. A real, honest to goodness smile wil often show wrinkles or other facial flaws.

Smiling with the lower row of teeth only.

Proximity. If we stick around you, we like you. Especially if it seems that we get closer over time. Parties, social events, offices.

Looking when when you look at us – eyes or head (or both). It’s said by some neuroscientists that when we look down, we’re experiencing feelings. If we can’t help but go into feelings around you, especially if we’re a little bashful, that’s often a good sign. WE’re not bashful aruond peopel we don’t like or aren’t attracted to.

Your turn

That’s a good start, but there’s plenty more.

What’d I miss? What can be explained better? Let’s make this exhaustive & awesome! Add to the list here, then when the list gets long enough, I’ll hire a writer to put it all together and clean it up.

Tks for the info… LoL otter

[PressRelease]

00greena,

Can you give some more “first approaches” like:

“Wow, you have beautiful eyes!”

“I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room.”

[meow333x]

@PressRelease

00greena,

Can you give some more “first approaches” like:

“Wow, you have beautiful eyes!”

“I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room.”

yikes! don’t use those!!!just trust me on this

[PressRelease]

lol. So what does work to you?

[xfyr]

love your hair.

[absane]

@PressRelease

00greena,

Can you give some more “first approaches” like:

“Wow, you have beautiful eyes!”

“I have to tell you, you have really great style. You just light up the room.”

Wow, don’t use those.

Try this one:

You: Hi! You look like someone whose opinion I can trust. Can I ask you a question?

Her: Sure!

You: Does this smell like chloroform to you?

[PressRelease]

Wow! lol. Nice one! A couple more please

Hey, absent, but then are you going to tell her that you’re wearing pheromones? lol. Whats next?

[meow333x]

@absane

Wow, don’t use those.

Try this one:

You: Hi! You look like someone whose opinion I can trust. Can I ask you a question?

Her: Sure!

You: Does this smell like chloroform to you?

oh man that’s some funny shite

[theLaw]

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[PressRelease]

Great stuff. Thanks

[xfyr]

You say “love your hair” and casually reach over and touch her hair. First contact. First sniff of Instant Openness or whatever pheromone you use. You will instantly know what effect or “hit” it has. Make eye contact then gently touch her on the small of the back and casually say “What are you drinking tonite?”.