Be smooth. Not desperate.
Usually an interesting drink like Henessey or hpnotq works on my targets.
Men’s Guide To Women’s Sex Signals
THE EXPOSED NECK
When a women exposes her neck to you , its a sign of submission. She’s been very vulnerable and open to you. Now’s your opportunity to show you understand her signal by complimenting her hair or necklace and by dropping your own defenses.
THE EXPOSED UNDERARM
A woman rarely exposes her underarm, but when she does, she knows it. Typically, she’ll be leaning back while doing this – which itself is a sign of her comfort. This is also an instinctive behavior to send out pheromones to a potential mate.
THE EXPOSED WRIST
When a woman rests her chin on her knuckles, exposing her wrist, it’s a sign of submission. The wrist is one of the more delicate skin areas. Be sure the palm is facing towards you, because if the backside of her hand is towards you, you get the next signal…
THE BORED FIST
When a woman rests her chin on her knuckles, exposing you to the backside of her fist, she’s telling you she’s bored and wants you to get lost.
THE HAIR PLAY
When a woman plays with her hair while talking to you, it’s a sign that she wishes you were touching her. She wants you to visualize yourself playing with her hair. Look for her to flip her hair back or let it fall over the side of her face in a playful way. When she adjusts her hair, she is showing you she cares about the way she looks.
THE JEWELRY TUG
When a woman looks directly at you and plays with her necklace, she’s giving you an open invitation to approach her. Not only that, but she’s giving you an easy opener – compliment her on her jewelry.
THE LEG TWINE
When trying to get your attention, women will draw focus to their legs by exposing a little thigh, swinging their legs back and forth, or twisting them into an alluring angle. To men, the leg twine is the most appealing sitting position for women, as it indicates she is ready for sexual performance.
THE LICK OF THE LIPS
A woman may lick her lips while looking at you for several reasons. Typically, she wants her lips to look moist and more attractive to you. She may also be fantasizing about you and licking her lips out of her own pleasure. Or she may just be giving you a preview of what’s to come!
THE ORAL SUGGESTION
When a woman is excited over you, she may put something in her mouth and play with it subconsciously. Whether it’s a straw, spoon, or her finger, this is definitely a good sign for a man.
THE OVER THE SHOULDER
When a woman looks at you over her raised shoulder, she gets the sensation of peeping at you, while you receive the thrill of being peeped at.
THE PEEK A BOO
When women were babies, they enjoyed playing peek-a-boo with their fathers. Now that they’re grown up, they still find the game playful and mischievous. If you catch a woman peeking at you over a menu or other object, and she quickly covers her face, wait for her to reappear and greet her with a smile!
THE PERK UP
No matter how crowded the place is, everyone sees you when you enter a venue. Immediately look for women who have perked-up their bodies upon your arrival. Approach them and save them from their dreary evening!
THE PLAY THING
Always check out what’s in a woman’s hands. If she’s running her fingers around the rim of a glass while looking at you, she could be showing you her wedding/engagement ring (or lack thereof). If she’s taken, she still may want to talk with you, but is just making sure you know what the situation is.
THE PRIMP
if a woman is into you, she’ll primp herself to draw attention to her appearance. If you’re talking to a woman, then step away to the bathroom or to the bar, check to see if she did any secret primping while you were away. If so, then she cares about you enough to look her best!
THE TOUCH MYSELF
Women know that men enjoy watching them caress themselves and they use this as an invitation for you to approach. She also may be imagining what it would be like, if you were touching her.
THE SHOE DANGLE
When a woman lets her shoe dangle off her foot, it’s a sign of positive sexual energy. There is a phallic effect of pushing the foot in and out of the shoe. If she actually lets it drop to the floor, that’s your invitation to sweep in and save the day by placing it back on her foot.
THE SHY GIRL
When a woman feigns modesty by looking down and away, she’s just being coy. If she were disinterested, she would keep her eyes at the same level while looking away.
THE SIDEWAY GLANCES
If you see a woman looking keenly sideways, you’re out of luck. She’s definitely interested in the person she’s looking at – but not you.
THE BORED WATCH
In case you really don’t have a clue, if the woman you’re talking to keeps looking at her watch, she’s not into you. Move on.
THE CYLINDER
Fondling a wine glass stem, cigarette, finger, or other phallic-shaped object is a sign of what’s on her mind. You may also see her taking a ring off and putting it on repeatedly.
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Multiple looks
You catching us looking at all
Hair play
Hovering, mild stalking
Blushing
Eye dilation
Showing flesh
Facing chest or face toward you
Smiling that makes us look bad
Proximity
Looking when when you look at us
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Deliberately, but not making obvious to others, she will start bumping her knee against yours, or any other body part her knee will reach on you. she will do this to make it unobvious to those around her, except for the one her knee is being thrust into. She may do this repeatedly if the guy doesn’t “get it”, and she will do this very covertly so that she doesn’t show anyone else that she’s interested in the guy, except for the guy who is the recipient of her knee brushing and thrusting.
My favorite is when she is leaning over a bar or counter and starts rubbing her thighs together. This usually causes a little swaying. She’s letting you know that kitty is restless and wants out to play!*
*Disclaimer-Swaying can be a sign of her being uncomfortable. Don’t confuse the two.
Peregrine the Philanderer
good list Jasmin
Alright guys, I’ve got one for you (a question..you’ve pretty much covered everything else).
There’s a girl at work (playing with fire, I know). She’s 23, I’m 26. She works as a secretary in a different department and occasionally does stuff for me (used to be half day, now very seldom). My office is very secluded, meaning that I’m usually the only one there with the exception of a visitor every 20 minutes or so. She still comes by a few times a day to say ‘hi’ or whatever and we’ll usually go take a couple cigarette breaks together(initiated by her) each day. She’s got a boyfriend, I’ve got a girlfriend(and a kid..I know it’s volatile, but I’m a grown ass man). I can’t for the life of me figure this one out.
There’s usually mutual conversation about stress in our respective relationships and empathy. She’ll also often do this thing where she’s sitting in a chair about a foot from me, facing me. She’ll put her leg on one of the legs on my computer chair, pretty much touching the main pneumatic shaft(haha) that the chair sits on. Every few days, she’ll ask me if I can get her a movie(and I do, mostly because I’m a nice guy & all but also…you know). In all fairness, I think I started that thing by letting her know that if she wanted a movie I could get it. There’s eye contact & stuff, and I even checked out her pupils yesterday - pretty big, but not huge. She also mentions ex-boyfriends and recent(non-physical) correspondence with them.
I really can’t figure out if this is -
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Total invitation, but I’m just way too stupid
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Desire, but reluctance because of both relationships
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Trying to get free movies and just being nice.
Other things that I can think about are frequent (from her) -
-playful hitting
-playful touching, squeezing around the rib area
-visitation. Yesterday, for example, the last hour of work was spent at my office explaining elementary school-9th grade to me.
-the knee thing mentioned above…sometimes
Morals, ethics, and all aside. What you think guys?
Shouldn’t be in this sticky, but anyhow; you’re one of her girl friends.
Sorry.
so what do you do in a social situation when you are alone? i am a loner unfortunately. if im out, its usually by myself. what do you do then? or even if you are alone and she is alone?
Could i get any help in this area… I am talking about seduction, compliments, lines,etc… I think i am a good love maker, the problem is the whole seduction, pickup lines, picking up on women problem and knowing when i got a bite…
What books, audio, info, web sites are there out there?
TIA,
Wayne
Just search for seduction. Some of the good material is in podcasts. I particularly loved the ones by the Seduction King, but your taste may vary…
Also you can try hypnosis recordings to help you become a better seducer. If you search you will find we mentioned them some time ago..
Good luck anyway and respect others whatever you do.
What about multiple touches??? ie, slap on forearm, back or shoulders?
interesting thread…how is everyone?
where are the phero gurus? they know who I am talking about..
They have all taken off to the mountains in their quest for the truth and freedom of speech by the look of things.
Ie… "Intelligence cleaveth unto Intelligence’
Hey terry!
How are you?
Yes we succeeded in getting the right babe(s) and we are very busy now… 
well I am busy with her…
I am fine and fit and feeling very well and i am enjoying every moment of my existence, thanks Phoenix, its a real pleasure to see you and i will take a look at your journals ect…
Yes too true, getting the right babe(s) and becoming busy with her certainly could be a most rewarding and exciting pastime and should be enjoyed and appreciated… I wish you all the best…
thanks and same to you!!
It’s always great to read your posts… all the best!