So i didnt respond to her last message yesterday even though she seen that i saw it as you guys said and now today sent me a message reminding me she has things of mine still. Oh btw Only half way through alpha male book will finish today.
Good - the “I have things of yours” is the next step on the ladder of her trying to keep contact.
Don’t be in any great hurry to collect them.
Yea a couple hours later after i didnt respond she asked me if i wana cook sometime…it was kinda our thing that we always did together and had the most fun doing plus usually sex was mixed into it all, but not always. So i dont know what her angle is on asking me of that, if shes trying to say something or just toying my emotions via memories to get me to say something to her and so i didnt respond again.
Whats your take on all this mobo?
About the trying to cook part that is? Was she trying toshow shes yryinh yo rekindle something and i was too stupid to see it or was she trying to friendzone me?
Yes, she’s trying to keep you where she wants you and you are stepping-out from that.
Its not that this is a bad thing and yes, I’d go-for it again with her but its just happening too soon to have meaningful emotional and attractive impact.
At this point it sounds like she is just throwing-out stuff to see when you jump for her.
Keep her waiting/guessing a bit longer. 
So she messaged me today asking if we arnt talking at all then? I assume to just continue and not respond?
Either don’t respond or wait a bit longer than normal and remind her you have a lot of other things going-on and you need to do them.
Don’t say what - let her imagination join the dots for you.
Just responded now(24 hour later lol) with what you said and she just replied with ok. So now i just have to worry about seeing her everyday and avoiding her questions about being friends or who knows what. So when she wants to have a/the talk; i should just tell her that shes silly and that its no big deal. Right? Im also thinking about using this bottle of instant boyfriend i have been hiding away…would this be a good time to use casually in class since we sit in the same are and i will be within range ? Also i have all her things packed up in a box…do i just keep it in my trunk until she asks for it or do i tell her i have it waiting in the car when i see her?
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so which which way do you think i should proceed so i can be somewhat prepared for tomorrow?
So nothing happened yesterday. Everyone made compliments on how good I look
Excellent!
Those are all changes that get you noticed - in all the right, good ways.
And she will be seeing it too - and it will very likely be getting her in a spin all over again. 
So for now, just keep looking good and be happy/upbeat/unbothered. Let her slink away from you bu equally, be positive/upbeat and engaging if she does end-up beside/facing you.
Don’t tell her she’s being silly, or do anything that might be seen as condescending/putting her down or let her draw you into deep stuff. Treat her in a positive, respectful and friendly manner. If anyone is going to get narky, slink away or have a tantrum, it needs to be her but odds-on she will see a new side of you and your taking control of yourself without her and that will turn her-on more than ever before.
You did the right thing not taking-up her offer of cooking for you. She’s wanting so see how high you will jump for her and by declining, you have made yourself a challenge - and a whole lot more attractive as well.
Next time you speak to her - and if you can, it is better to keep this in person for now do remind her of the stuff and if she invites you to bring it over, go then but do not be concerned about sitting it out. It may seem totally counter-intuitive bot often, the longer you leave things the harder the reverse will hit her when it comes - and when it does, you main worry will be to avoid repeating the situation where she took you for granted and lost attraction for you.
No she wanted to cook with me not for me but anyways She slinked away at the end of class today…with impressive speed too..haha
Thats good - she’s clearly feeling something. Let it simmer. 
So today We had a class together and she said hi and i said hi back
I would try to readjust the mix and maybe either drop the A1 or the P96. I have found with A1 I have to use it solo and never with P96 or P74 as it is to much bonding and can kill the sexual vibe.
It is up to you what you want from her, I just would be careful not to set yourself up to get hurt. If it were me I would go for it and just keep in the back of your head that it is nothing serious right now.
so here is the update: everything executed perfectly as mobo and all said it would. i ended up moving in with the girl and all was well till about a month ago when i allegedly(i have no recollection of this) told her to get lost while she was trying to take some of the covers from me while sleeping and hasn’t acted the same after asking me “if i’m not expressing all my feelings to her”. this is not the case i just am ruthless in my sleep and just have issues with anyone bothering me whether it be her or back in my day my own parents. i get very vulgar when messed with in my sleep-side note. this happened the week before thanksgiving break and since then i have been on a one lay a week and am starting to have enough of it. she claims that she simply doesn’t want to have sex due to her acne progressively getting worse and she is quite obsessed with it. i’m honestly at the point where i am planning a different place of residence for next semester but don’t want to be the one that drops the ball about it. i just don’t understand how it went from 3 lays a day to one a week. i honestly don’t know what to do but at the same time i don’t believe i would be too upset about ending it even though i don’t want to…i guess i just maybe have kind of lost hope at this point. i really like her but at the same time as pathetic as it may sound for a guy feel neglected. i was considering taking a break over winter break and disappearing for at least a week or two in hopes to make her realize she misses me. not sure if this is a good idea though.i appreciate any questions, input and/or advice. thanks in advance guys!
Yes, my body is also inhabited by a ferocious demon while I’m in deep sleep. That prick has cost nice-me dearly over the years.
On a sidenote, your girlfriend sounds pregnant.
Luckily she’s not and just as I was suspecting she would, she told me that she doesn’t think this is gonna work. I simply told her okay and to not refer to me as her ex but rather that we were good friends that shared everything. She offered for me to stay until I figured out my new living situation which isn’t possible for a few weeks, I have my mattress at her place and told her I would be out before she came back from the weekend Monday. Do I just take my mattress and leave her high and dry without one when she comes back? Do I take the offer of staying and let he watch me become a better person over the next month before it’s time to move in with my buddy. When I moved in she threw out her old one even though I insisted to keep it around.