Move out, move on and move up. Take all your things including the mattress, that way neither you or her have any excuse to drag things out.
She said she wants to discuss her reasoning behind it, i decided to just leave.
This sounds to me like the wheel has turned full circle and you are back at the top of the cycle all over again.
And its got very little to do with you - More I see it that she is back to finding any reason she can to end/shake-up the relationship to gratify her own feelings.
IME this is a pretty typical behaviour pattern from women who have unstable/abusive/emotionally deprived backgrounds - When a relationship begins to solidify and move to its next stage, they can’t go there and seek (often unconsciously) to throw things back to the emotional highs and lows of when it started.
This is where you need to short-circuit matters less destructively in advance of her starting to spin-out on you by introducing your own bit of dissonance to give her the emotional ups and downs she craves and it is time to think long and hard about if you really want to continue down this road as this can go-on for a very long time before she finally settles down to let a relationship move forward, sometimes for many years.
I know I planned on doing so over winter break but she beat me to it, So do I take the matress , leave the keys to the place and give her the silent treatment or leave the matress, leave the keys and the silent treatment to give me the best odds? Much appreciated
Mobo or somebody please give me a option 1 or 2? I only have until 8pm eastern time to make a choice before she gets back to her place
I’d certainly step right away from her - and leaving the matress/keys might IMO be the better choice as it looks more like you are willing to flit for good, which may have the greater impact on her emotionally.
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still no responses
So she ended asking me if I was coming to talk…I assume this was before she made it into her room, I replied a hour later saying :something came up and have work, I just need some space , nonetheless I hope your happy. She simply replied “ok” half hour later.
Now that I think about it I probably should have left the happy part out.
You know her best of all - So it is absolutely your call. 
And stop all communication now for a good while to let the message hit-home. It won’t do any good if she knows she can still call you-up.
Recieved a text today telling me she has a bag of my stuff at her place
small update, she tried reaching out to me again today asking if i have a rented textbook of hers…i obviously dont. also turns out i did have her pants and i told her i would ship them out to her on monday, havn’t done so yet as i really dont have the time with hitting the gym everyday for a good 4 hours a day and just trying to make the most drastic changes i can in the next 5 weeks i have left before i see her again in classes.
so on a side note i have a really funny experience from over the weekend with a1, i was at an old family friends party(mind you i left the house with a spray of CTTM2 and NPA) all was fun and good for the forst 2 hours just catching up with people. then hosts recent (week ago) ex girlfriend shows up(shes a 10/10 minimum). So just out of pure curiosity/bordem i went into the bathroom, sprayed on some a1(50mcg) to the back of my hands and sat back into my seat. when she came by her cousin who was sitting next to me she wouldn’t stop squirming; fixing her dress, tossing her hair around and just kept glancing at me. i just sat there and watched tv while being quiet entertained by her behavior at the bar drinking my seltzer water just to be a dick and see how long this will go on for. well she did this for about 10 minutes until her ex boyfriend came and introduced us at which point she called me out on my behavior and said i was “shying away over there” i simply laughed at her and continued on to mind my own business. (mind you if this was anybody elses ex i wouldn’t have though twice about it but the truth of the matter is, i just couldn’t do it to the guy. i have a whole sea of fish at school and this dude is set on getting wifed up from what i gathered that night.) but yea just my funny story from the weekend.
So how does one go about short circuiting as you mentioned above? Can you elaborate or give me an example? Many thanks
also mobocaster i have a very important question to ask you but cant run the risk of doing it on a public forum only to be indexed by google…lol
Mainly by keeping a little mystery/life to yourself. Do stuff that doesn’t involve her, triggers her curiosity and keep your options open - a few friends she doesn’t really approve-of can also work wonders . Never put her completely at her ease about you. That way she she’s kept slightly challenged emotionally and has to keep-up with you, keep proving/qualifying herself and you don’t become the doormat to be walked over.
PM me if you wish - I can go months between looking at my G+ account and I don’t do Whatsapp/FB etc.
PM’d you
Got it - had a visitor in all night so not had time to give you a proper reply - which I’ll try and do tomorrow. its 2:20 AM here and I’m fading!
its the holidays i get it, just making sure it didn’t get lost among the many others…lol thanks again
Quick question, can hair playing be a hit off the mones say 8 feet away(classroom setting)?