Well I am wondering just that. To this day, I have never told anyone about my phero use.
She works in a very male dominated field, and does not get the respect that she deserves from her male co-workers. It has lowered her confidence, and the drive to do her job. Also, she seems to have a bit of social anxiety. She does not feel comfortable when she is alone around crowds. I feel as if I have info that may help her, and feel selfish for not telling her.
This, of course, poses a problem for me. As it stands, she is one of those types that does not understand pheros. She thinks they are some love potion that tricks women into sleeping with men. To carry it farther, I fear that she will take my phero use as a sign of me trying to trick her into feeling something for me again. She had noticed a few monthes ago that my cologne changed often, (we hang out 4-5 times a week) when she asked me about it, i paniced, and told her that I had come across a new colonge company that was sending out samples to be reviewed by people. She is not dumb, and would put 2 and 2 together.
Then, if I give them to her, she may research them and find this forum, where I post regularly.
Not to mention how I would feel if she finds out about the ones that attract men. I don’t know how I would feel about that.
I have thought about buying them, taking the labels off, and trying to make up some story about what they are, but I feel it may lead to more questions that i may not be able to answer.
If I was to do a pro, con list, the cons outweigh the pro’s but I am quite confused about what to do. Pheros have enhanced my life so much, and I feel selfish for not giving her the knowledge that could enhance hers. So once again, I turn to you all for help. What do you think?
Very sorry about the Neg Reps. I think all negative feedback should be done in a public forum, so that we can ALL learn from it. If you’re jacking up, I want to learn from that. If I am jacking up, I want it to be a learning experience for everyone else too.