So what if no matter where you went, you get screwed some how and upset everyday? That school is not even safe from insults, nor tennis practice? Nor anywhere you search on a page, even myspace where about 10 people comment u and post stupid shit on it?
I’m so confused… is this in response to another post? Or is there something behind this that i missed? Or is this just a hypothetical situation based on Nietzsche, where all of life is horrible and there’s no way to escape it?
Cause yeah, if that was the case, i’d go all Walden on the world and live in the woods. Try to find me then, insulters!
That’s terrible!!![]()
Rise above them, and don’t let them bother you, because people like that are not worth your hurt and your pain. I know, thats easier said than done. But I think you know you do have real friends here ![]()
Yes, going to live in the woods is a fantastic option. I have even considered it myself (seriously) and not all that long ago either. At least the woods here are pretty nice (except for wild boars)
Mmmmmm free ham.![]()
LTD, don’t deal with people like that. Find a better class of people.
Yah, right. Not when the ham is like 4 times bigger than you, and 100 times stronger and scarier
He already has found a better class…us!! ![]()
But it’s sooooooooooo tasty
Okay then, but you have to catch it. And I don’t know about tough old wild boar meat, maybe if its ground up and tenderized to death…
Come here, I’ll give you a hug, (and possibly even a boob rub if you’re very very nice to me
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Those people are obviously total losers, just like my tormenters were.
I was totally unpopular in school, taller than everyone (now I’m just average tall), too skinny, super shy, teased because I preferred to read at recess rather than play outside with all the mean cliquish kids, but look at me now!!!
Now they are getting old and fat with dead end jobs and no curiosity or creativity, while I am beautiful and smart and interesting and interested in everything!!
Don’t you worry, time will tell all, and the real winner will be you!!
On the bright side, there’s only 1 year left after which you might move away to go to college/university and start chapter 2 (or 1
) of that game.
Yeah, college will definitely be the sh*t…
No one will know about my old nerdy self, and I can make great new impressions all over again. Plus colleges are big, so I would have to do something really stupid if I were to be known on campus.
I’m definitely will try to get in Michigan State; I hear they are a great Big Ten School. And you know whenever there are a lot of students, there are a lot of babes ![]()
to sillykitty: aww thanx
nerdy = smart, bright, greatest chance of success in life
Be proud of being “nerdy”, and if anyone calls you that, take it as a compliment, and say “thank you” with a beaming smile ![]()
You can still be brilliantly smart and not be nerdy. There’s a balance involved. ![]()
Go deeply into your nerdhood.
Don’t resist.
It blossoms on the other side.
Where would the world be without nerds?
There would be no moon landings, microwave ovens, heart surgery…
Hell, probably no Instant Shine or Turn up the Heat, and even if it existed, there would be no internet so we would all be unaware of it.
Revel in your previous nerdhood and celebrate yourself as a valuable member of society. I predict that when you go to your high school reunion in 20 or 30 years time, you will find that all the people who laughed at you are jealous, I’ll bet you’ll be earning a lot more than them as well.
Yeh dude, Highschool is highschool… you get thrown into your little caste from however you were in Junior high and without remarkable effort that doesn’t change.
Go outside highschool - Get a hobby where you will meet new people (not associated with people in your highschool) and forget about all the silly little bullshit.
One of the best things that ever happened to me was going to a week long conference in Grade 10 - ended up being the only person from my school to go that week (normally 2 people from a particular school would go during each session… I just happened to choose a week where nobody else wanted too)
I get there and was like - well I never have to see these people again -> I’m just going to be myself and not give a shit. At the end of the week one particular girl actually cried when we left for different airport terminals (she was a HORRIBLE kisser… )
The experience completely changed my outlook, I realized that I was a naturally likeable guy and all this bullshit at school wasn’t worth it. I proceeded to dump the majority of my “friends” (they treated me like shit) and spent the next two years being the kinda weird guy who really just didn’t give a shit about what people thought of him.
Funny thing was… in Grade 12 there was this girl who had graduated a couple years earlier and was coming back to upgrade. Ended up sitting beside me randomly in Chem class and, because I talk constantly when I’m bored (and highschool chem is boring) we chatted it up. She ended up sitting with me in Physics as well.
Long story short - halfway through the term she comes up to me and goes “People think really weird shit about you”… After my look of confusion “Wazzat?” she explained she was having a convo with people in her applied math and the subject got onto me (somehow). She said I was cool… people went really… you’re talking about Seewald?
The rest of our convo was about how Highschool is absolutely ridiculous.
Anyways long personal story short - Plenty of evidence that I’m a social guy… likeable - didn’t matter even when social proofed from an older girl that people thought was cool - Didn’t matter that I was dating an older girl from another highschool in the city - I was the weird kid, and that was that.
Forget highschool, they think what they think there - look outside of it and FORGET all the bullshit from inside. Just be yourself - you’ll find people who like you for you and it is so much more enjoyable spending time like that.
Yeah your right, it gives me hope for the future.
Btw, i had a better day today, read my latest entry The n00b journal
LTD Don’t let the bastards grind you down
The coolest people I have met are the people that dont give a shit what other people think of them. So dont give a shit!!! ![]()
oh and as for a getting a GF you don’t need one of those!! they are dependant and needy! your only young once!
Im 18 and I already feel old and regret being in a long term relationship all through college (I believe college for me is the last two years of high school for you!)